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Post by kaziklibey on Sept 6, 2008 21:07:06 GMT -6
Ok, i thought i'd start a topic in here since it was sorta me who asked for it.
How do you engage a person you're attracted to and tell them your feelings about them?
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mazhi
Casual Flirt
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Post by mazhi on Sept 7, 2008 17:35:10 GMT -6
If I knew that, I wouldn't be a virgin.  |
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Post by tresha on Sept 10, 2008 2:23:03 GMT -6
Ok, i thought i'd start a topic in here since it was sorta me who asked for it. How do you engage a person you're attracted to and tell them your feelings about them? Hey Kaz, brave question. I've had three long term relationships, and several serious attractions. In all of these except the one I'm in now, *I* was the one who initiated things. It can go several ways. If the one you are interested in is already a friend, you might need to ask yourself if the friendship will survive if the feelings aren't returned and which is most important to you; maintaining the friendship or taking a shot at exploring a deeper relationship. You might also be able to pick up on some signals. With my Sweetie now, we'd been friends for several years and then suddenly I looked at her and went "whoa, she is HOT. When did that happen?" I didn't even realize that after that, my actions toward her changed a bit. I was a little bit more open with my mild signs of affection with her, stuff like that. Meanwhile, she'd been discovering feeeeeelings for me. She sent me an email, then we talked etc...the rest is history! Overall I'd go with honesty. Whether it's someone whom you've known for a while or a more recent friend, simply telling them, "I'd really like the chance to spend some time with you" or "I find myself really drawn to you and your company, would you like to go out on a date with me?" Trust me, as the one who has initiated things many times it can be scary as hell....but can also be rewarding as all get out. Hope this helps! T |
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